Why do Married Men/Women Stray???

Just weeks ago, I received a call from a friend telling me her husband cheated on her.  My first respond was "how sure are you?.  She told how strange her husband behaved when answering phone calls and even started deleting all his messages. I felt so sorry for her.  Imagine a woman having to take care of some young children at home while her husband happily having an affair else where. How despicable is that??

Anyhow, I believe every marriage has its ups and downs.  I am blessed with a wonderful husband who is always there for me whenever I needed him.  Still, if someone were to ask me whether or not my hubby would stray someday? My answer would be "Why not?".  All men like exciting adventures.  Every so often, staying married for too long has the tendency of making couples grow tired of one another.   And when this occurs, these married men yearn for new excitement and not surprisingly, some married women crave for it too.  So, it's never easy to keep a marriage alive without both parties putting in any effort.

I had this interesting conversation with a group of friends recently.  We were talking about most wives have in hand of their partners' savings account, mobile phone and email address passwords - basically, there is nothing to hide unless the partner is up to something no good.  Some teased the wives for being so "controlling" but they forget that the hubbies also have their wives' passwords. Unfortunately, I belong to this so-called "controlling wives" category. Haha!...

My hubby even commented why I keep his email address password for, not as if there is some money in it. Haha!

Anyway, I wonder if someday my hubby would change his passwords without me knowing it.   If so, is it for security reason or is he up to no good??...;-)

psssssssttt....it's usually up to something no good lar...;-D